Paula has been a transformative guide in my journey toward building healthier relationships. In the past, I had a pattern of chasing men who needed space, often pushing them away with my anxiousness and mistrust. When I briefly dated someone I truly saw as my future husband, I quickly let my insecurities take over, and it ended in heartbreak—a pattern I’ve faced more times than I’d like to admit.

Since working with Paula, everything has changed. Her guidance, tools, and the Men Mindset Manual have helped me focus on myself and transform my approach. I’ve learned how to step back, trust the process, and allow a man to pursue me without sabotaging the connection. With Paula’s help, that same man has come back into my life, and I genuinely believe we have a real chance for a future together.

Paula not only taught me about men and relationships, but she also helped me uncover tools within myself that I had struggled to use before. She has been there for me at my lowest point, offering kindness, support, and actionable advice to help me turn things around.

I’m so proud of the growth I’ve achieved through this program and grateful for the investment I made in myself and my future. Paula’s expertise, patience, and dedication have been invaluable, and I cannot recommend her enough. Thank you, Paula!

finding Paula after reading the rules has been one of the greatest gifts I've received in my thirties. I wish I had received the rules 20 years ago and have been working on the things that I need to work on 30 years ago, however working with Paula has opened my eyes and my ears to the possibility of finally having higher self-esteem, higher self worth and in turn one day a very healthy wonderful relationship with the man. I would recommend every woman who is struggling with self-esteem or any type of self-worth issue to talk to Paula, listen to her podcast, reader book and really start working on within.

Coach Paula is absolutely wonderful. She has really helped me change the way I view myself, men , and dating. She is an amazing teacher that can help any woman achieve the love they deserve and desire. Working with Paula is worth the investment. Any woman that is lucky enough to work with Paula will not regret it!